17 Jun 2017

You can, My friend!

Aah! The monsoon again. These rains, flooded roads, moist climate reminds me of something beautiful I experienced last year around this time of the year. An usual working day but was excited because it was our class teacher's birthday and I took the responsibility of her gift. The previous night I made a set of handmade jewelry expecting that gift would make her day special.

So, Yes! It was her birthday and with all the excitement I almost got ready and realized it was pouring outside. "Oh God! What do I do?" starting off on my bike was technically impossible and no cabs available. "Terrible! I can't skip the college today. Her gift is with me. I'll have to go" I thought to myself, packed my bag, took an umbrella and commenced walking. Had to walk a few meters i.e. till the main road to take an auto-rickshaw. Perfect! I got into the auto. "Please hurry up!" I insisted the autowala to ride it faster as I was already running late. I was completely drenched because of the downpour. 
                         
"Terrible! Just Terrible!" I thought, when the water was coming into the auto from the roads.  Oh yes, the city was flooding and the route I had to travel was filled with knee length water and I was already late by an hour. And finally, though I was 2.25 hrs late than the usual college time, completely drenched till the bones, was caught by cold, the gift wrap got wet and torn to some extent too. But what made that day a beautiful and an unforgettable experience? Have you thought about it? 
                                
Well, I'll share. That 2.5 hrs of not so usual journey made me experience and realize a few things which are helping me keep my life smooth and accomplished till date. May be that's just my perception of what I've seen and felt. A man tied a huge umbrella to his bike and was riding in that rain with two little kids dressed in school uniform. The kids looked happy and seemed to be enjoying the slipping droplets of the rain from the points of their umbrella. May be he couldn't afford a closed transport like most of us. They too were equally drenched and probably late for the school but they were happy and enjoyed every drop of that rain. 
                                  
Saw a mommy embracing her child and wrapping up the child in her dupatta with a hope that she protects her child to the maximum possible extent. A man helping his colleague lifting the bike off the deep mud though his formals were getting spoiled. A girl holding her friend's hand and carrying her bag to help her cross the road safely, a group of rich looking youngsters treating each other with a hot roadside cutting chai and capturing those moments, a boyfriend holding an umbrella for his girl while walking maintained a constant blush on her face, a man getting down from the car only to give a raincoat to the beggar sitting on the footpath - drenched & shivering, a group of kids from the near by slum playing in the mud pond.
                                      
There was a girl who stopped her auto-rickshaw to give a lift to those two girls waiting of a bus, also the whole of the traffic taking diversions and giving a passage to an ambulance, my autowala himself giving a leg push for more than a kilometer to an auto which had an engine jam. And so many other things... The gender, caste, religious differences faded away, the line between rich and poor looked erased, every person around spread the non-verbals like they are there for each other. 
                                          
I felt I was surrounded by 'humans'. I was actually surrounded by not just knee length water but also by a lot of humanity, love, joy, happiness, positive energy and beauty. All that uplifted my mood and the delay, wet clothes, slightly spoiled gift didn't matter there after. And when it comes to what I realized, lemme share, there is always a helping hand in our bad times, might be from dear ones or strangers, but there always is a hand to lift you up when you fall... all we need to do is, just look around and ask. For all those who think love is all about romance, or going out on dates, or in the so called three magical words, no, its not! who knows if the person who loves you the most is just around the corner in the form of your parents, siblings, spouse, cousins, best friend, or someone whom you dislike and haven't realized it yet. 
                                            
These short and sweet tit bits of life make it beautiful in their own way, then is it you and me who couldn't see it that way? Can we start counting our blessings and start admiring the little pretties and joys we have and stop worrying about what hasn't come our way yet? Can we not die for a million things happening to us and start living? 

Take a deep breath friend & stay alive! Because,

#WLOO (We Live Only Once)

Preneeja Peelukhana


50 comments:

  1. A beautiful and day-making article! :) It beams positivity. :) It's the small things around us that make us realise of the big things of life. :) This monsoon article brought a smile on my face :) thanks. :)

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    1. I am really glad that I made your day anjana... and thank you :*

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  2. Wow... Karma helps all..just keep the hope alive...:)

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  3. wooow..... thats lot of positive vibes to keep oneself move on... :)
    when ever we feel low, just have a look at our surroundings we will find a lot to get inspired and move on... :)

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    1. Haan bhai... and that feels magical :) it always helps...

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  4. This was beautifully written my friend 💕💪 #YOLO

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  5. affective writting which promotes positivity

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  6. Warm thoughts poured out .

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  7. The article did change my perception about this season.. no more complaints. Thank you :)

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    1. Awwww that's cute lav! I m glad I could bring that change. Thank you so much.

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  8. Boy friend ani Ela cheppesaav? Ante ammayi, abbaayi Kalisi velthunte bf-gf ena?! :p

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    1. He surely was. you haven't seen the before and after scenes know.

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  9. While reading your article, I paused in between for a while and thought about the recent experience I had gone through and realized that humanity exist everywhere and one who see it through an open hearted positive eyes, will feel the happiness and count the blessings in every moment.
    On a hartal day, we were standing in a bus stop with no clue of how to go to the destination. An old Muslim lady whom we don't know, has come forward to help us. She offered a lift in his son's auto.
    We could have blame that day as a bad day in our life because we struggled to reach at the destination. But when I think of it now, it was a good day because I could feel how helpful people are.
    Thank you for this article. I got the message that we should change the perspective of life to positive which will make huge positive impact in our lives.

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    1. yeah shree, you got it right! our perspective is the sole reason of how we feel. :) I m glad I could help :)

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  10. Wow!! That's amazing article.

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  11. In any situation if you look for good you find good. If you are looking for bad, that's what you are gonna get. It's all about perspective. Be good Do good Stay happy. Good one Luckyyy ����������

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  12. What a beautiful thing to wake up to!😍

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  13. Woww.!! Amazing article preneeja..😍😍😍

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  14. Wonderful article... It's really nice...!

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  15. An immense message which people commonly outlook. At the heat of the moment things turn upside down. But letting our calm overpower makes us finding the beauty of the things. At the end of the day things might go annoyingly reverse, staying strong and looking for the bright side is what the nature tests.

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    1. Wow bhasu! Rightly put! You inspire me:) thank you!

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  16. Every human need human because we all need help for everything that's nature you are deviating minds from helpless to become helpers great efforts.....

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  17. Very detailed and heart touching story.....you made my day... :)

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  19. Really nice yaar, you've painted an amazing picture of the rain, the ppl n the emotions...however I did not like this ending...I mean it shouldn't have ended. Wanted more of it. Keep writing

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    1. Aww! Thank you karan, sorry that i had to end that :) and yes, i would continue writing :)

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  20. lovely read. i too try to imbibe the same thing into my kid saying "dont look at wat all u dont have, look at all that you have and other dont", focus on making someone (anyone) happy and you will feel so happy n positive urself." once again, lovely article. wish more people read it and learn something from it...

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    1. Thank you so much buddy :) and yes, even i wish for the same :)

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  21. my pleasure deepam! and thank you :)

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  22. Preneejaaaaa��������������������
    So beautifully u expressed each nd every line... My goodness... M in love wid ua blogs dear

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  23. Preneejaaaaa��������������������
    So beautifully u expressed each nd every line... My goodness... M in love wid ua blogs dear

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    1. Beautifully written.. 😍 n thought-provoking article. I can relate myself to some of the characters in this article.

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  24. Awesome teacher 😍😍
    That was soo good article 👏👏👏

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  25. Awesome teacher 😍😍
    That was soo good article 👏👏👏

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  26. Great Article..!! Very Informative And Helpful..!! Thanks :)
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